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Society assumes that it already knows why quiet people are quiet. The assessment usually boils down to one of two things… Quiet people are either anxious or rude: The reason why introverts prefer calmer environments and are naturally quiet people is because their ability to observe is limited to less-clamorous places due to its reduced rate of activity. They're chronic over-thinkers. They may want to start a conversation, but they're busy thinking about that conversation's possible outcomes. On the other hand, I’m somewhat introverted – VERY much so around her, because I don’t feel that I can trust her, and also feel like she wants everyone to remain silent. My introversion matches nearly everything stated in this article, and it goes away completely when I’m surrounded by friends. I’m very genuine, and just speak the truth. The passive aggressive ones have an agenda, definitely have sociopathic tendencies, and are often narcissistic as well – which is not common of true introverts.

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At the end of the day, quiet people are the Schrödinger’s Cat of the meeting world. We won’t know who they really are until we talk to them. How can we uncover these unknown knowns? Uncovering the Unknown Knowns What other benefits are there to being the quiet one? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section. Do you often feel misunderstood for being shy because of your quiet demeanor? Or, do you often feel ignored for not talking much? Our culture is biased against quiet and reserved people, but introverts are responsible for some of humanity’s greatest achievements. – Susan Cain Above all, soft-spoken individuals are known for their unique quality, which is being calm. The introverts’ advantage of silence helps them operate optimally, which is why they easily stand out from the crowd. What is an introverted person like?They believe they are broken and need to be fixed, so search for solutions. And in this quest they alienate themselves from themselves, tearing apart that most natural bit of themselves, which is foundational to their very being. You don’t need a solution. You need understanding and acceptance. Don’t judge me because I’m quiet. No one plans a murder out loud.” So here are six reasons you should never underestimate the power of a quiet person: 1. The quietest folk listen a lot and may know more than other people suspect. You prefer to say something meaningful than merely talking to fill the void of silence. This example is what gives introverts power, and makes them unique. I’m not open to many people. I’m usually quiet and I don’t really like attention. So if I like you enough to show you the real me, you must be very special. – unknown

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Shyness/Social Anxiety (you want to join the conversation but you fear making yourself a social outcast by saying something stupid) Schools are anything but quiet. From busy playgrounds and noisy lunch halls to classrooms with group activities and grouped tables, schools are far better suited to extroverted students (Thom, 2020). Talking is celebrated,children are encouraged to speak up, and being outgoing and extroverted is often viewed as desirable (Thom, 2020). The concept of ‘quiet’ is not typically positively encouraged and, at times, is even presented as a punishment – “If you don’t stop talking, we’re all going to work in silence”. Within this context, introverts can go unnoticed or, worse, can be perceived by their teachers as being less able than their more talkative peers (Coplan et al., 2011).While you’re sitting in silence, you can enhance both your concentration and your focus. Plus, quiet folks are less prone to distractions when they have enhanced awareness. Living in the moment is not a problem for someone who allows themselves just to pause and observe. 16. They’re Better at Decision-Making We believe we have a double mission: to ensure that introversion is not seen as a negative pathology that needs to be ‘fixed’, and to advocate for ‘the quiet ones’ in school to have their voice heard and to receive the support and encouragement that they deserve. It’s not your right to make someone talk. It’s your right to hold silence until you have something worth saying. Over to You